William Shakespeare once wrote, “The course of love never did run smooth.” That is an understatement. It can be complicated figuring out how to date. However, romancing a vegan when you’re not one can be especially daunting.
Issues like where to eat, what to eat, or which activities to participate in become heightened. Other considerations include successfully blending friends and family members, which is exponentially more difficult when factoring in the unpredictable nature of other people’s opinions. Vegans and even vegetarians may have arrived at their lifestyle choice for any number of reasons, including the environment, health, the desire to lose weight, or animal rights. However, a new social network of people who disapprove of the lifestyle and aren’t afraid to poison the well with a meat-eating love interest can prove fatal for the relationship.
In a 2015 study, researchers found that some subjects expressed more prejudice against vegetarians and vegans than racial bias against other ethnicities. The study goes on to show that conservatives tend to view vegans more negatively than other groups. Ethical vegans – vegans who don’t eat meat out of solidarity with animals – are more disliked than vegans who abstain from meat for health reasons, and male vegans are less accepted than female vegans. When these biases arrive, communication is a must. According to mental health provider Better Help, “Being on the same page, even just being able to practice compromise, or understanding each other’s commitment to specific goals are important. In many cases, suddenly it might not make sense to stay together if a lot is different in terms of life views.”